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This commentary is written for wives who are living with an alcoholic husband. It is not bewildering to find that men drink more than women. Nevertheless, this is susceptible to debate and we will not dwell on that at the moment. As a wife staying with an alcoholic husband, there are many things you must do and I will share them with you in this piece of writing. But let me quickly maintain that fighting with him is not the solution to the setback. That will not bring him back to his right mind. You will know what to do after looking through this commentary to the end.

The first thing you must do when living with an alcoholic husband is to detect the origin of the problem. To put in another way, many alcohol addicts did not start drinking without a reason. Accordingly, it is your obligation to detect the basis. For instance, it may be a loss of a career, a downgrading in the office or a nagging wife and disorderly toddlers that make a man turn to alcoholism for comfort. This suggest that your partner is drinking because of yet to be revealed reasons. Hence, you must patiently find out these reasons. It is only when these factors are exposed that you can identify what to do to help him out of the difficulty.

Another thing you must do with an alcoholic husband is patience. Yes, you must never run out of that. This is especially the case if he was not drinking alcohol during your courtship and in the early days of your marriage. Endurance is necessary to find out the cause for his extreme drinking and it is also demanded when you desire to help him prevail over alcohol addiction. You should never expect him to change overnight. Patiently assist him to find out his crisis and be of assistance to him to look for the solution.

Communication is also required if you are living with and want to help an alcoholic husband. You should never walk out on him just because of his pointless manners. In fact, that is not the solution. You can only take that step if your life and that of your tots are in danger. Talking with him is crucial and during your meeting, try and keep away from talking about his alcohol addiction early in the conversation. Bring up other topics first and when he is paying special attention and enjoying your conversation, you can now talk about his addiction and the negative effects it is having on you, his children and the relations as a whole.

It is only when all the steps discussed in this article has been done and there is no success yet that you should start making an allowance for the idea of getting him into an alcohol abuse treatment center. And when he agrees to the idea, it is prudent for you to discuss with him continuously so that he can know that he is not deserted.


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