Sometimes a divorce occurs even when two people are meant for each other. When that is the case, time passes and one or both of you are thinking about getting back together after divorce . Can that work even if you have been apart a long time?
There have been countless stories, movies and television shows about similar situations. Sometimes people are separated by war or strange circumstances. Many times they parted on less than the best of terms.
If the two of you really are compatible, then certainly it can work out if you handle it properly. Having the support of others around you will help some too. Chances are, you both will bounce the idea off of those you are close to.
Maybe the breakup happened when you were young and could have even been the first time a difficult trial came your way. Getting back together after divorce is going to require you to look back on the cause of the breakup to see if that situation still exists.
It could be that after being with others after your spouse has led you to appreciate what you had with him or her. We often do not realize what we have until it is gone; cliche but true.
Has absence made your heart grow fonder? It can happen that way, although sometimes we do not always remember things the way they really were. Subsequent circumstances can have a lot of impact on that.
There needs to be a renewal of the physical attraction between you both if getting back together is going to be successful, but the emotional attraction counts even more. This time around you should not be gullible and fall for someone "sweeping you off of your feet".
Long term successful marriages require mutual respect and admiration between the partners. Do you think that is going to happen with you and your ex? If so, continue to evaluate the issues that must be overcome to make it happen.
Perhaps you were married for some time, maybe even had a family. Is it the children who you would be getting back together for? If so, do not count on long term success. The relationship has to be deeper than having children together.
I admire you for considering getting back together after divorce especially if you have been apart a long time. There is much to consider but if you are right for each other you owe it to yourselves to work it out.
Increase your chances for success by checking out some videos and other information we have at our website that has been so successful in helping others. The address is .
