Breakup Advice - A Cheating Ex Girlfriend

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We humans like to believe the best about ourselves, and each other. Or rather, we should, but that belief can be cruelly shattered by the behaviour of one partner in the relationship. I am talking about a cheating ex girlfriend . Imagine, for instance, someone who has lived with you for several months.

You have got to know them well, of course, and come to love your partner. Your girlfriend has reinforced your feelings for her by saying she loves you as well, and all is well.

Gradually the cracks begin to appear. You cannot believe it at first. The truth starts to emerge that she has been deceiving you all the time you have been together. How do you know? Because of the many phone calls she has been pretending to make, have actually been from her ex boyfriend, contacting her.

So you have unwittingly found yourself in a love triangle, where you are being used by your ex girlfriend, to get back with her ex boyfriend. Imagine the hurt and distress you would feel if this happened to you.

Not only would you have awful feelings about yourself, perhaps blaming yourself for being so foolish for not seeing it sooner. What about your feelings for the girl you have been living with, even though she clearly does not love you?

The first thing is not to blame yourself. You could not have forseen this happening when you began the relationship. All the wonderful times you shared together turned out to be false.

You can take a lot of comfort from the fact that your love for her was genuine the whole time you were together, while hers for you was not. That makes you a good person, while your cheating ex girlfriend is not.

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