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So what do you do when your dream turns into a nightmare? Well, there aretwo problems that you need to solvein order to fully recover from a bad break-up:
The first one is learning the art of letting go. Here's a quote from the movie "The curious case of Benjamin Button": “You can be as mad as a mad dog at the way things went, you can swear and curse the fates, but when it comes to the end, you have to let go.” If you don't let go of what happened, you will continue to focus on this unfortunate event from your past, instead of thinking how you can get the love life that you really want.
And just like Madonna says in the song "Jump", "There’s only so much you can learn in one place / The more that I wait, the more time that I waste". So the question is: how can you get over this bad break-up as soon as possible, without being stuck with the feeling that you must lock yourself up in a fortress and never open up again in a relationship?
This is wherethe second problembecomes visible and it is this:in order to get over a bad break-upwithout having the constant fear that if you get involved in an intimate long-term relationship again, you may have to go through the same suffering that you go through right now,you must become a master of your own love life.
Why? Because this is the only way in which you can be sure of success in this area of your life. Otherwise, it's a numbers game. Maybe you hit, maybe you don't. But why is this the only way?
Well, here's the problem with men. Their behavior is, for the most part, not different from what you see in the animal kingdom. Men look for variety and their default way of being is to go from one woman to another. This is their natural way of being, they’re born with it and society reinforces it on them.
So here’s the key: there are a few specific things that you must do if you want to stop a man from his “dating frenzy”. Unless you do these things,a man’s default way of being will overshadow everything else andin the end,he’ll leave you. So if you want to keep him forever, you’re up against nature and his own biology. I hope that now you understand why I keep insisting on becoming a master of your own love life.
If you're going through a bad break-up and you're heartbroken,you must solve these two problems, otherwise you'll most likely experience a lot of unnecessary suffering for quite a while.
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