A rebound relationship is when your recent ex is dating someone in order to help get over you. These relationships prevent your ex from having to deal with the emotional baggage of a break up. People tend to use rebound relationships to help them move on from the real love of their lives.
That's the secret to getting back with your ex. They're in that relationship to help get over you.
It doesn't matter why or how they lost you. It doesn't matter whose fault it is either. It doesn't even matter who broke it off. What does matter is that there was real love there, and given the chance still there.
Nearly all relationships that are founded and based on true love can be saved from disaster.
Chances are you will find the new date is the opposite of you. This is what happens in rebound relationships. If you were a real nice person they will probably date a not so nice person. It helps them forget.
The fact that they are actually focusing on opposites is good for you for a couple of reasons. Their attention will still be focused on you even when they are with the new date. And it gives you a chance to see what they're looking for.
If their new date is as opposite from you as possible, it could mean there was something missing in your relationship. You can use the time they are with the rebound date to try to improve yourself.
Let this new rebound relationship run its course, as it surely will. As they spend time with the new date they will start to notice the flaws in them. After a while with rebound date you start to look pretty good again.
This is why you should never crawl back to them right away. Let them realise that they miss the good stuff in your relationship. When they are ready to make a move, be gracious about it. Welcome them back and try to be a new and improved version of yourself. But don't chase them.
Here are a few techniques that you can take if they are in a rebound relationship.
1..Don't try to convince them you are the love of their lives. They will discover this soon enough.
2..Don't keep apologizing. If you were at fault you can say sorry, but only the once. Move on. They know deep down why they love you.
3..Don't make any promises that you can change. They fell in love with you for who you are, not who you should become.
4..Don't try to convince them that it wasn't your fault. They will realise that over time, but only if you don't make them waste energy on fighting their corner.
5..Never ever beg your ex to take you back.
When your ex starts dating someone after you have broken up, they are "on the rebound". You can make it up with them and get back together. Don't despair. Being "on the rebound" is a sign that they still love you.
These tips can help you get back together but there's a method that will almost guarantee you can get back together. You gotta take action though,no action means no results!
