How to carry on after a break-up? Some people get totally destroyed after a bad break-up and fell that all is lost. They need counseling and sometimes the counseling also does not help. What is the way for such people who suffered in the relationship? Let us find out.

1. Take focus away-If you feel betrayed after a bad break-up and if you feel that you got a raw deal in the relationship, the first action should be to take your focus away from past. Refocus yourself to your...

Looking to have your child support lowered?  Here are 17 quick rules to follow to help you lower your support payments to your ex-wife after a divorce or separation.

1. Know that there is actually a difference between paying child support and physically supporting your child.

2. Don't listen to negativity that others provide when you are going to court to lower your child support.

3. Don't be intimidated by anyone.  Not your ex-wife, not her attorney, nor the...

A divorce is a hard stage and harder if you still love the other person and want him or her by your side. Stopping a divorce is difficult but not impossible. There are many causes that contribute to a divorce and one of the major ones is broken trust in a marriage. Here are some advice which may help you get the trust back and save your marriage.

If you have been unfaithful, accept your fault. Talk with your spouse and assure him or her you have changed. Now just don’t tell...

Filing for custody of a child is a very serious and very emotional issue. Parents or any other potential guardians going through this process want to make certain that they fill out the child custody forms accurately and appropriately to the individual state they reside in. These documents vary depending on which state you file in, but there is information that is universal across all states. Parents should have a good understanding of this information before initiating the custody...

Divorce mediation, a calm, rational negotiation to iron out the terms of a marriage’s end, is becoming an increasingly popular alternative to acrimonious traditional divorce litigation.

In divorce mediation, a mediator aids in negotiation between a husband and wife by assisting with communication, acting as a buffer when tempers flare and providing information and strategies to help resolve differences. The benefits of this process are lower costs, less angst and an...

Many a couple has vowed that their divorce would be different. Civil, harmonious with a settlement that is win-win for both participants. They calmly acknowledge that while they are breaking up it is just one of those things where it's everybody's fault and at the same time no one bears the blame. One thing they guarantee to themselves and each other is no matter what they will remain the best of friends.

And then it happens. A minor conversation takes a wrong twist. Maybe a...

As many readers know, I serve on my church’s counseling team. When our pastor recently announced in church that his wife was filing in for divorce, everyone was shocked. Divorce among pastors is rare, particularly because they are often so well-schooled in human relationships and often counsel couples to avoid divorce. He informed us that she gave no reasons—so it was open for us to start making all sorts of wild guesses about what might have happened.

Divorces...

With divorces at an all time high many couples will go through the pain and turmoil of marriage breakup. That also does not take into account the number of divorces that are stopped before they get too far! This means that even more will suffer the prospect of divorce.

So how can I pull back from the brink you ask? More importantly how do they make the marriage last in love and happiness? While every marriage and divorce are not the same, with different people, values and...

Divorce and separation can be quite a ride. Up and down. Up and down.

Will it ever stop?

Even before the decision to separate or divorce is made, life can feel like it’s spinning out of control. One day you’re up, the next day you’re down. It can feel like you are losing your mind.

Divorce is a life challenge that impacts many significant areas of one’s life: financial, social, emotional, economical, occupational, geographical and spiritual....