On May 26, 2010, I attended an event at Asia Society New York. The speaker was Tony Hsieh, the founder of Zappos. His talk was about "Delivering Happiness", his coming book this June, 2010, and it was very inspiring.

I'd like to share with you my notes at the event, for those friends who was not there:

Tony showed up at the event, look like a bright student more than a multi-millionaire. He was young, smart, and humble.

Tony started...

Scot is in his first year in high school.  He is not the athletic type and does not enjoy physical education.  He has a bad ball sense and whenever he runs, he does so in a zigzag manner while keeping his body upright.  You probably have guessed correctly.  He always finishes a race near bottom in the class.

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