Christian marriage help in my humble opinion is made to be more complicated than it needs to be. Please don't think I'm minimizing your marital problems but if you are a Christian then you probably have read in your bible the following; "Ask and it will be given to you; seek and you will find; knock and the door will be opened to you".
You see if both husband and wife are Christians then it's even easier to get Godly marriage help right out of His Word. I'm sure you have read somewhere in your bible that "For where two or three come together in my name, there am I with them". So, if husband and wife join together and ask God for Christian marriage help He is there, ready, willing and able to help.
Ok, so what help should you ask God for in your Christian marriage? I would suggest you start with these two.
Christian Marriage Help #1
I would suggest you ask God to give you guidance on how to have a better relationship with Him (God). If you can just begin to understand the relationship dynamics of God and you, it will be easier to be a better marriage partner and soul mate to your spouse.
Wouldn't it be great if you could show your spouse some of the same characteristics God shows towards you (unconditional love, forgiveness, kindness, gentleness, self-control and patience)? If you and your spouse lived out these traits I wonder what kind of example your marriage would be for others seeking marriage help?
The key is to put God first in your marriage and in your life. The bible say's to "seek ye first the kingdom of God, and his righteousness; and all these things shall be added unto you". If you put your Christian marriage ahead of your relationship with God you will struggle more than you need to. Don't put the horse before the cart. Put God first and it will help keep your Christian marriage in order.
Christian Marriage Help #2
Next, I would suggest that you ask God (together as a couple) to strengthen your marriage and your relationship with Him (God). Remember "ask and it shall be give" and "For where two or three come together in my name, there am I with them". God ordained marriages and is delighted when marriage succeed. As it states in the bible "So they are no longer two, but one. Therefore what God has joined together, let man not separate."
Who better to ask to help make your Christian marriage the best it can be than God? I'm not saying that God only wants you to ask Him for help for your marriage but as it Christian it certainly makes sense to ask God for guidance, wisdom, strength, discernment and anything else you need for your marriage to succeed.
I believe God wants your Christian marriage to succeed and has given guidance and instructions in his Word on how to live an abundant life.
