Hello friend,
I know you love your wife and kids. And you willing to do anything to fix your relationship. Deep inside you, you know it can be done..but just clueless.
While the economy seems recovering, the bear has managed to sliced through marriage relationships. Resulting in high percentage of divorce. Safe to say that jobless and divorce walk in hands.
Although monetary gain is not the whole idea of a great relationships, it often lead to arguments, disagreements and worse of all living separately.
Here is some extremely good news! If there is something you have always wanted to do, but felt you couldn't, all you have to do is to gain an awareness that you can do it, and you'll have no difficulty in doing it.
You actually canSTOP DIVORCE NOWeven you are at the slimmest chances of doing so... and you seems the only one who wants to stop it.
The first thing you MUST DO is to focus on rediscovering thePASSION.This will rebuild you relationship. Do not focus on the PROBLEMS of your relationship before finding the passion. Here is why...
This is extremely true...the fact that big problems in a relationship will almost fix themselves
if there is enough passion in a relationship...BUT... Even the smallest problems will seem like mountains to climb if there's NO passion.
A small emotionally charged date will go much farther healing a relationship...than having a two hour conversation about why the problems happened.
Next step is to fix the problems... Here are four strategies that never work - yet people always try:
~ 1. The first is to give them reassurance. "I've changed. I won't be controlling anymore. I won't lie to you anymore. I won't have another affair," and so forth. The efforts to give them reassurance. This almost never works.
~ 2. The second strategy is to tell them over and over again, "I love you." That never works.
~ 3. The third strategy is arguing, reasoning, trying to talk them into feeling different or doing different. That never works.
See, most people don't know that if you agree and sound sincere to the other person, do not defend yourself, do not explain yourself, they will defend you.
So... Always agree during argument even when they are wrong!
If you talk about where they are wrong, they become more wrong. And if you talk about where they are right, they immediately become less wrong.
Lets recap what must be done toSTOP DIVORCE NOW:
1. passion
2. agree
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