We all have an inherent need to grow, evolve and manifest ever greater realities. This is basic to our happiness and feelings of self-acceptance and self-contentment. Happiness can be created in two ways.
a. By manifesting what we want - creating the reality we desire.b. By learning to be happy with what we have - with our present reality - until we can create an even more positive reality.
We effectively manifest our goals with these 8 steps.
1. Clarify goals 2. Set Intention (consciously and subconsciously)3. Determine Actions and "sacrifices of love"4. Remove inner obstacles 5. Employ efforts and program6. Perseverance 7. Patience 8. Detachment from result
1. Determining and clarifying our goals
a. We start by making a list of our goals. What we would like to accomplish in the near and far future - before we leave these bodies?We might be talking about any goals on any level. Some examples might be:
HealthLose weightA harmonious love relationshipFinancial security Abundance on all levels Professional advancement Professional satisfactionGreater effectiveness in dealing with clientsBetter relationship with time.Able to be more assertive with othersGreater Athletic achievementGreater success with the opposite sexDietary disciplineIncreased creative abilityLearn to dance (paint, write, act etc.)Learn a musical instrumentLearn a languagePublic speaking abilityTo be able to be totally honest with self and othersTo be able to be myself in all (specific) situationsBetter grades at schoolLearn to fly a planeTravel around the world (or to a specific place)More effective communication with _______Be able to Love ____ as he/she isOvercome the pain of the loss of a loved one.Overcome attachments and or fears.Greater ConcentrationBetter MemoryEmotional maturityGreater Self-acceptanceGreater Self-confidenceMental developmentThought-free meditationHappiness in all situationsInner Peace regardless of external eventsSelfless Love for allMoral contentment
Many other possibilities ________________________________________________
Please take time to choose a goal of your own or inner potential that you want to manifest.
Some of my present goals (inner potentials that I would like to manifest) are:1. _____________________________________________________________2. _____________________________________________________________3. _____________________________________________________________4. ____________________________________________________________
The first goal I would like to work on is: _____________________________
b. Then we will want to understand why we want to manifest these goals or inner potentials. This helps us clarify why this goal is important.
1. What do we believe we will get or feel when we succeed? (What is the need behind the need?) (Happiness, satisfaction, self-worth, acceptance, recognition, peace, security, money, freedom, satisfy parents) Why do we want, need or desire to do this?
When I have manifested this goal (inner potential) I (believe I) will now have:c. Greater financial securityd. Higher self-worthe. More acceptance/recognition from othersf. Greater freedomg. Satisfactionh. Inner peacei. Long term Happinessj. Greater Self-actualizationk. Moral satisfactionl. Inner fulfillmentm. My parents' recognitionn. Other _______________________
The most important of the above for me are: ________________________________
Sometimes the goal may not be ours - but for our parents or for society - spouse.
2. Is this goal for me or for others? Is it a childhood programming?
3. Is this goal worth pursuing - as a process - even if the results are not what I imagine or would like? Is this ideal important enough for me to make the effort - not matter what happens?
4. Is this goal moving towards something or running away from something?
