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Ending an affair is never easy. "I don't love you anymore." Those are probably the hardest five words you'll ever say to anybody. It's no surprise that men and women are seeking out advice for this problem every day. I guess, if you're reading this article, you may be one of those people who, for whatever reason, just can't find the right way to end an affair. Well, this article is going to give you some advice that will help you end the affair and move on with your life. In life endings are rarely easy, affairs are no exception, it's not an easy task, to let somebody go, for both sides of the equation. Even the worst marriages have a hard time letting go. It's even harder when one half of the relationship is is happy, whilst the other is wanting to split. For those wanting to end the affair, this is when things get messy. How do you say it's over? Truthfully, there is no easy way. So if you are searching for some "magic" words that will have your partner agreeing with you, words that will make them see reason and not be heartbroken, in fact have them relieved its over... well I'm sorry to say it's not going to happen, those "magic" words don't exist. So here is my advice to you. Be perfectly clear and straightforward, you may need to be quite blunt about the issue, whilst being careful not to be too hurtful. Quite simply stating "I'm sorry to say this just isn't working" is all you need to start with, you can then get on with the rest of your explanation as to why you want to end the affair. Do not, rant and rave, equally do not leave a way back for your partner, deal in plain facts and try to take the emotion out of the situation. The other player in the affair will appreciate the directness of your statement, most people do not like to be led on or lied to, and going down that road only leads to bitterness and trouble. Do let them know you have enjoyed there company and that ending the relationship doesn't reflect poorly on them but this is definitely goodbye. Lastly, don't put it off!!. Like anything in life, ignoring a problem or putting it off, hoping the situation will somehow resolve itself, will just make the issue at hand worse. Waiting weeks or months to address the issue is only going to make things worse, if your partner is in love with you they are going to be falsely lured into a false sense of security that you are going to stay with them bad their feelings of affection will grow stronger. So get it over and done with as soon as you can, you will both feel better and allow you both to get on with your lives. For more information on this sensitive subject check out the link below, its a review of great resource that will help you through this process.
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