The Major problem that most people facing when comes to public speaking is the unnecessary stress created from their fears such as fear of loss, fear of the unknown, fear of embarrassment, fear of losing faces… these are the major causes of all the needless pressures that hinders their performances, be it a toss over the dinner table, business presentation or large scale social events. So how shall you get rid of all these pointless tensions and make a fear free public speaking?
Here are some quick tips for you.
Do you remember President Abraham Lincoln and all his famous addresses such as the Gettysburg’s address? His has been honored to be one of the best public speaker in the history and his speech touches thousands and millions of souls even after he’s dead for so many years. He said “If I have 8 hours to chop down a tree, I would spent the first 6 hours sharpen my axe.” This has shown that how important the preparation means. Of course, you would never be him and he’s long gone. One good way to prepare yourself is keep practicing your speech in front of a mirror until you are confident enough to go for the real thing. Remember, practices makes perfect!
Present yourself at least an hour earlier at the venue where you suppose to deliver your speech. This will give you a great opportunity to control the ground, practice your speech and getting along with this “hostile” environment.
Greet, talk and befriend with everyone in the room. This is a sure way to quickly eliminate your anxiety and fears; also you make new friends.
Of course, not asking you to try anything funny or talking bad about yourself, but don’t you agree that when you share your bloopers with the audiences, all your fear will be gone immediately? But please don’t overdo it.
Speak with your heart, you cannot share or deliver something that your heart doesn’t feel. People will pick up your sincerity and will react spontaneously to what you say. This technique not only is the best way to eliminate your fears and anxiety, it is also the best way to deliver your speech effectively!
Lastly, public speaking is not always a horrible thing. In fact, it is a wonderful thing. If you master what I have just shared with you up there, you will be surprise how simple and easy it is, to speak in front of others. Now! Don’t waste time here, go out there and apply all the tips I just share with you and you will definitely have your Fear Free Public Speaking!
