There were a lot of signs that you would end up getting stuck in the position that you are currently in. Petty arguments over what seemed to be nothing at all, a distance that started to appear, and next thing you knew, your girlfriend was no longer your girlfriend anymore. She's now your ex girlfriend. After a little time to think about it, you realize that you would like to have her back in your life.
What's worse is, you don't want to have to wait for a long time to get her to come back. You want to get your girlfriend back fast. If only there was a way, some kind of subtle way that you could work on bringing back your ex girlfriend and make sure that this time, nothing broke the two of you up again.
Well, that does not have to be just a dream or a fantasy. It can become your REALITY.
Here's how you can get a girlfriend back using subtle psychology techniques:
1. You need to practice the art of being aloof with your ex girlfriend.
Remember, she is not your current one, so there is no reason to feel the need to let her in on EVERYTHING that is going on in your life. One of the key components of this is that you are taking away something that she is used to, which is talking to you. You cannot give her all of your time and expect that she is going to feel the urge to get back with you.
2. You need to make your ex girlfriend see that you are MOVING ON.
Why should you move on even when you want to get her back? Because it is HEALTHY to move on, and it also shows her that you are not going to always be there should she change her mind. People take for granted the things and the people that are always going to be around, so don't let that happen to you. Make her realize that you are not going to let her have her fun while you sit at home and pine away for her.
3. You need to trigger specific factors of attraction in your ex girlfriend.
Now that she is no longer with you, you have to treat her like she was a woman that you really just met. This is pretty powerful, because relationships need to go through their normal progression, and although the two of you have already been together before, if you get back together it's still going to be a NEW relationship. This is also effective to keep things feeling new and appealing, and not go right back into the boredom that led to the breakup.