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Too often, the climate after a relationship break up is far from being one of rationality. If you want to get back your ex, success is rarely possible when both you and your ex are physically and mentally overflowing with emotion. It probably even seems like there is no hope for any kind of reunion or rebuilding. And even with that knowledge, you hope for brighter skies and truly want to get back your ex. There is every reason to hope. Many couples that have been in your situation have successfully rebuilt their relationship - usually stronger than before. Countless couples followed proven techniques and pointers that got them successfully back together, and now it is your turn. This first pointer might be a little hard to deal with, but you probably would not be reading this is you did not want to get back your ex, right? With that said, you and your ex need some time apart. It may sound odd, but you both need time apart to have any chance of getting back together. Singly, you have a chance to see your relationship from the outside. Being physically separate does not mean just being apart. It also means no communication whatsoever. No emails, not texting, no phone calls. I told you this might be hard to deal with. You can do it, and for the sake of your relationship, you must step up to the plate and must do this. Think of this as a time to regroup - without the influence of your ex. Time for yourself is just what the doctor ordered. Enjoy yourself, and do those things you have wanted to do that make you happy. For some it might be a shopping trip, others it might be a camping trip to the outdoors. Being alone does not have to be difficult. Taking time alone giving you a chance to know who you are and strengthen your self-confidence, is. What you eventually will see is that you can make it on your own. Think about this: how prepared are you going to be if your plan to get back your ex never comes to be? What your ex will see is that you are a strong enough individual to make it without them - something they may have assumed you could not do. So while you build self-esteem you also leave an impression with your ex and gain their respect. Do you remember when you and your ex first met and the weeks that followed? Maybe it was that once-in-a-lifetime feeling - you found your soul mate. You were both so into each other and did not want the days to end. Everything they seemed to say was important. When the time comes to get back your ex, treat it like it was the first time all over again. Everything they say should be important to you. Listening during this time is very important, as it is pretty much at any time. This is not the time to focus on the past, point fingers or place blame. Keep the conversations light to start. You are likely to feel slightly uncomfortable - almost like you do not know this person across from you. All of this is for the better good of your relationship. At a slow pace and with patience you and your ex will have a chance to rebuild your relationship. This is just the start of what could be life changing for you and your ex. Details on these pointers and other guidelines to get back your ex are available through my website. Do you want to rebuild your relationship? Doing it on your own usually will not work. Most people are unwilling to take advice, but I strongly recommend you take your relationship seriously and learn more about what you can do to get back your ex .
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