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Do you wish that you could just get him backwithout all the drama and plans and schemes and crazy tactics? All you want to do, after all, is just to get back with your ex and move on with your life. But everyone has an opinion and it seems like everyone is in your business. Everyone seems to know what is best for you and what you need to do to get him back.

Family and friends are telling youthat if you want to get him back that you should just wait for him to come back to you. They tell you that you should set him free and if it is meant to be then it will be. Meanwhile you stand the chance of having him wonder if you even care about him any longer. How long before he just decides to move on and find someone else?

Maybe you have talked to a counseloror heard that you should focus on yourself and make yourself the best person that you can be in hopes of attracting him back. Others feel that if you just pull yourself together he will see what a great catch you are and come back to you. You should get control of your emotions and get some new clothes and then plan to meet up with him so he can see how spectacular you look now. Sounds a little lame, doesn't it?

Perhaps your friends have told youto start dating another guy and then conveniently bump into your ex or let word get around that you're dating again. This plan plays off of his emotions and jealousy and sounds more like a coyote versus roadrunner cartoon than anything else and has great potential for failure. After all, how would you feel if you saw him out with another woman so soon after the breakup? How quickly would that kill any chance of the two of you getting back together again?

Most advice that you will findwill tell you to allow time for emotions to return to normal and for the dust to settle from the breakup. This does sound like solid advice but how long do you wait? Wouldn't it be easier to get him back sooner rather than later? And how can you get him back without all of these plans and tactics and outrageous antics?

All you want to do is clear the airand get back to being in love with your man. Chances are he is tired of all the drama and everybody poking their noses into your business too. So how do you get from point A to point B with as little drama as possible and wind up getting him back in your life again?

The answer is simple.It is all about communication… and not the typical communication that counselor and therapists encourage in their offices. Yes, you do need to clear the air and resolve issues but there is a right way to do this and a wrong way. Once you learn how to take responsibility for your part in the breakdown of your relationship you are heading in the right direction. After that it is easy to completely disarm your man and make him more open to talking and your differences disappear to the point that both of you might wonder what you fought about in the first place. Learn how to talk to him and you will learn how to win him back.


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