I cannot tell you how many times I have heard this desperate cry for help from guys that have just gotten the axe from the woman that they love so much. Breaking up with a woman that you thought you would be with for a long time is pretty hard to handle, and there is nothing wrong with deciding that you need to find some help to get your girlfriend back.
After all, there is no class in school that would prepare you for this, you are expected to kind of figure it out on your own. And that can be especially tricky when you are thinking about her all of the time, and deep down, you just want to find an easier way to make her want to come back to you.
Well, here are 3 classic techniques to win her back:
1. You need to make your ex girlfriend feel like you are moving forward with your life.
As people, we are designed to move forwards and not backwards and this is a very attractive quality that even your ex girlfriend will find enticing. If you need a solid start to get her back, then you have to make her feel like you ARE moving on with your life and that you are not all hung up on trying to get her back.
2. You need to make her confront her feelings for you through a little bit of jealousy.
Yes, I know, the politically correct police will say that you should never try to make a woman jealous, it's just not nice. Well, there are ways to make her jealous that are not going to mess with her head too much, and one such way is for her to hear that you are out there casually dating other women. Hey, if you and she have broken up, then you have every right to casually date who you want. And this will make her have to deal with the fact that she is feeling a bit jealous.
3. You need to make your ex girlfriend see you as being more appealing than other guys that she might meet.
You already have a leg up in this one, though. After all, she did fall for you once before and so, you have a very good shot of making it happen again. To make her see you as more appealing than the next guy, work on getting YOUR life in order.
