And no matter how bad or unhappy our pasts were, our minds like to play with us and remember the occasional good bits. This can cause us to feel remorse, sadness maybe even guilt. And maybe even want to go back.
Now I'm not saying we shouldn't stay friends with say people we worked with just because we were unhappy at that place of work. And if it's a relationship we have left behind, there is a good reason. Doesn't mean you have to be nasty, just be grateful that you have a chance at a fresh start and look forward.
The past and all our experiences have shaped and moulded us into who we are today, good or bad.
Just be sure not to dwell on the not so good, pick out all the good things and work on those.
Leaving behind beliefs can be the absolute hardest thing to do. All that programming into our subconscious
way before we were old enough to tie our own shoes.
Most of it was probably pretty handy but some of it wasn't.
Our parents and the people who raised us taught us what they knew, which was most probably what their parents had taught them and so on.
Beliefs about self esteem, money, working, relationships, self growth and improvement,
Health, food, everything.
And it's hard to make changes, so hard sometimes
That we settle back into the comfort zone so we don't rock the boat and upset the people around us.
Believe me I know, trying to change the way you think, the way you do things to get out of the negative cycle you have been in for years, is a battle in itself. Then you have to deal with those people and situations around you that don't want you to change.
Little changes, tiny changes, it is like slightly moving the rudder on the boat. If you keep your eye on your goal you will get there. It might take a little longer than you would like, but if you keep touching that rudder ever so slightly your course will come around to the one you want.
Just remember the past is the past,
your future is waiting. Abundance in all things.
Goals ,plans and dreams – have them.
Have them BIG !!
