Handling Criticism Using The Law Of Attraction

There are always going to be critics in this world and you will end up on the receiving end of criticism at some point in your life. Sometimes the criticism is not justified, and other times it is, but in either case it may not what we want to hear. Criticism can make us doubt ourselves and our ability to reach our goals, and destroy our self esteem. However you will need to take on board what is being said and find a way to deal with it whilst creating the life you want.

No one else is in control of what we do or think. We all have our own minds and should feel free to do whatever makes us happy. Everyone sometimes does things that they are not proud of or says something they regret later. However, when others criticize us for this we have to be able to handle it in a constructive way. The worst thing we can do is to dwell on it and internalize it, as this can make us doubt our ability to manifest our intentions and actually push them away from us.

It is fine to dream big- the problem is not everybody believes this and may be tempted to try to tell you not to be unrealistic, or suggest that you settle for a lot less. Whatever happens, do not let anyone take those dreams away from you, and keep working hard to make them happen. Keep thinking about the goals and intentions you have and use the Law of Attraction to make these a reality.

There are unfortunately some people out there who want to make others feel bad. They feel bad about some aspect of their own life, and so try to make themselves feel better by putting everyone else down. They don't understand that the universe delivers what you give out- making others feel better will in turn make you feel better, and by helping others to succeed you will also succeed. If someone is trying to tear down your happiness and criticize you when it is not justified, try not to let it bother you. They should be pitied, as they are not ready for the Law of Attraction and the changes it could make to their life. Concentrate on feeling good- keep thinking of something in your life that is going well and immerse yourself in this feeling.

If someone criticizes you, and you feel that the criticism is justified, listen to them. Do not take offense and stay positive. Chances are the criticism is not a personal attack, but is intended to help you. Take their advice on board and learn what you can from it. Don't dwell on the negative aspects of the criticism but resolve to act on it if you feel it would benefit you. Maybe you could work it into your intention? Taking negative comments and making them positive is a great way to use the Law of Attraction. For instance, if you are in business, a friend may feel that you are making a mistake in a certain area. Think about whether they could be right, and brainstorm a few other ideas you could try. Carry on stating your intentions, and you may receive inspired instruction to move forwards with one of these.

Although difficult to receive, criticism is not always a negative thing, and can help you to consider whether there is a better way of reaching your goals. If the criticism has upset you, try talking this through with the person giving it and telling them how you feel. Then either discount it, if it is not justified, or learn from it. Then forget it and find ways to make yourself feel good about your intentions.