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Your marriage was going so bad that you felt the only thing that needed to happen was to get a divorce, because it seemed that there was no way out. But now, you feel different and you do not want that divorce to actually come through. Keep in mind that your spouse is probably devastated at the thought of getting a divorce from you, and they are hurt. You wanted a divorce and now you have decided that you do not after all, how are you going to try and stop that divorce? First off you need to realize that you behaved prematurely, and that you have hurt your spouse unnecessarily. Right now, you need to apologize to your spouse and explain to them that you acted hastily. Explain that you regret your decision to ask for the divorce, and you probably were lashing out of anger. If you have to swallow your pride for this one, then that is what you need to do for your spouse to even consider being with you again. This is an extremely necessary step and it is something that cannot be taken lightly. Bear in mind that your spouse may have been seriously thinking about your suggestion about divorcing, and in their mind they may have been settling into the idea and coming with reasons why it is a good idea to end the marriage. By swallowing your pride, and admitting that it was a mistake, you may have a chance to work it out with your spouse. Divorce is extremely serious, painful and an emotional thing, and it is OK to get emotional about it. Just make sure that you do not get hysterical and start blaming your spouse. You need to understand that your spouse needs time to get over the anger and the hurt that you caused when you suggested the divorce. Do not give your spouse another reason to want to get away from you, and that is precisely what you will do if you start blaming them for the problems you have. Stopping your divorce will require commitment from you, and it will take work on your part. If you need counseling to help you and your spouse, then that is what you must do. Realize that there are definitely issues in your marriage that need your immediate attention, and be willing to do whatever it takes to ensure that you resolve those issues.
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