Everyone tells you to move on, forget him he's gone. I will show you the 3 fast steps you need to take to get your ex boyfriend back. The plan is really so simple but it is over looked and ignored...why? Because they don't want to believe how easy it is to “ ?tid=ab92" " Get my ex boyfriend back again.”
Step One - Agree and Walk Away
You have probably heard of the no contact rule and how you shouldn't beg and plead. But do you know how to “flip” your ex boyfriends “switch” and make him miss you? That's the key to success with NC you must flip his switch as soon as possible.
Just send your ex a message agreeing with the break up and telling him you need sometime to think over some “big” upcoming decisions you have to make. Believe me this message is like using voodoo and will slowly start to eat away at him. This is the first step towards getting out of the friends zone and getting your ex boyfriend back again.
Step Two - Start the Evolution
If you properly initiate NC and flip his switch you will both begin to evolve. You will begin to feel very confident because you had the “guts” to send your ex the no contact message. Your evolution has begun...but what about his? “How can I get my ex boyfriend back if I don't let him contact me?”
Once he sees that you are strong enough to stand up to this situation he will begin to change the way he perceives you. You're not begging and pleading, and on top of that you told him to leave you alone, you never acted like this before when you two broke up...you're changing. Whether he admits it or not, he is starting to worry about getting his ex girlfriend back too.
Step Three – Reconnection
No contact is NOT about time, it is about evolving. During your NC period you should be working on yourself and learning how to be “single” again. One of the biggest problems you”ll face “getting your ex boyfriend back” is “spying” on your ex and seeing the “bogus” information he puts on his social sites ( MySpace, Facebook ) to drive you crazy, OK?
Why would he be doing this you ask? Because he wants to freak you out and make you break no contact then he has the control back again. This blows the evolution and all the work you have done so far...don't fall into this trap. There are books and forums out there that will help you follow this 3 step plan to get your ex boyfriend back. I suggest you find them ASAP, the sooner you're doing it right the better.
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S. Williams
~I know that love hurts but with my help you”ll get strong enough to kick loves ass~
