Im daily asked, what should I do after break up although Im still attached to my ex? My answer has always been this, what do you wish to do? I recognize that this is not the answer youve anticipated for but its bizarre that a man you used to sleep with, the one you gave your love, turns out offending you the most. As they say, It is unachievable to love and be wise which makes us all senseless sometime.

Its a piece of cake to say love is pain when you are not hurting but when you are in love with a man who care for you its like been in hell. Can you imagine all that tenderness... may be those Dahlias flowers... all that I love you... those chocolates and flirting, are now perish, thats painful memories isnt it?

Now you may ask what is better for you?


Calling your ex boyfriend is not the best advice. Requiring a sympathy to return is a bad notion. How do you act in this stage? To start you have to learn that love is nothing but a state of mind, its how you look your partner. When you alter that notion, there is no love. Are you beginning to understand? Let me point this out to you now.

Just remember this, before you got involve with his life, you had no feelings or any attachment with him. Even if I were to describe him it wouldnt cause you to fee the way you feel now. Do you understand why? Because when you are obsessed with a person, you create emotional response, which is learned, in your neuro system. The longer you stay together in a loverly way, the more you hardwire those neuron pathways in your brain and that means you establish more allurement (love).

Accordingly, when you break up with an ex boyfriend there is a strengthened acquired excitation that makes you feel wierd. If you cant go back to him then you must have an issue. This concludes why you cant think correctly or why you feel uncomfortable about your posture because of depression imbalance caused by breakupbreak up. This alter how you perform activities and your over all demeanours. The only way to act upon this is to alter how you manage infatuation. You have to change the way you feel about your man.

Ill elaborate...

Take any book you can acquire around, carry it while seeing the front cover then turn it around and then notice it from different sides . You will observe that, its appearance changes depending on which face you are facing it. The book didnt change but the how you look at it, changed. Now, Im not trying to compare your ex boyfriend with the book. What I mean here is this, when you alter the way you feel about your ex boyfriend, breakup will not impacts you. Probably you have a many enquiries of how to go through this? Luckly there is a trick to help you get over your ex boyfriend now. This technique will make you move on after break up completely, you will be more blessed than you can handle.