Countless others have gotten over a breakup so know that you too can get your ex back . That's something it might be difficult to see if you're in over your head wondering if you two can ever get back together again. But look at this: do you remember the first time you spotted your ex?
Back then the prospect of you both being together as a loving couple might have seemed a pure pipe-dream. But it happened.
Something Amazing About to Happen
Something just as amazing is about to happen - if you let it. Youcanwin the love of your life back. A lot of us have been there, including yours truly. It's not a ‘cake walk' but it's not as near impossible as it may first have looked.
Now you're at a loose end a little bit - during the times when you'd otherwise have been chatting, texting, sharing those special moments. At such times now there's nothing. Just a vague hope that you can win back love. Or possibly there's crying and the temptation to let the other know what this enforced gap is doing to you.
Like making you visibly ‘griefy' if you're the kind that wears your heart on your sleeve.
Toughness Called For
A bit of toughness comes into play right here. In the space previously filled with friendly chatter, a bit of gossip, whatever, don't be tempted to fill it with the bad news of what the breakup is doing to you
Sadly, the other doesn't want to know. Any such outpouring from you conveys rightly or wrongly, the message that you're the over-dependent leaning type that was set to be a complete drag in life. Leaners aren't popular believe me. You're on your own here in more sense than one. In fact don't even contact them for a bit.
Cool In-Control
What if they don't contact you? Hold off. If you're as valuable to them as I'd like to think you were, they'll contact you.They too have a big stake in saving your relationship
Then you show them the cool, in-control side of yourself. And you'll be proud to look back on this aspect of the making up. There are any number of ways it can go from this point. The suggestion of a meal out can often find acceptance. Don't just make it too much ‘bells and whistles'. Something simple.
And I'll tell you this: If you'd been together anytime before the split, you so far ‘ahead of the curve' now. You know their little likes and dislikes. In the nicest possible way you can play them like a fiddle. They'll love it too, the tune you're playing in your bid to prevent the break-up
Overall Master Plan that Works!
Maybe a meal wasn't your first choice of activity. Here your intimate knowledge of your ex can also be used to powerful effect. The variations and adaptations you can play here are endless.
No one can give you an exact blueprint to get your ex back . But I know an overall master plan that pays fantastic dividends. Have a look here You'll be glad you did. I hope it all helps
