From the beginning we were given our birth, we were already given problems as well. Wether it comes from ourselves, from our parents, from the environments, from anywhere the problems might come.
I am not saying that I am very expert in dealing problems. I just want to share what think good to share.
I have read the book "Personality Plus" by Florence Littauer. This book tells us about the four basic characters that human being certainly have. There are Melancolic, Coleric, Phlegmatic, and Sanguin. I will not explain them in this article. :-) Just read the book.
By reading the book, I understand, and I also agree with the distribution of human character. And here is what I would share with all of you.
We should be such a Melancolic person, so that we would be more critical, more sensitive, more thoughtful about anything surrounding us. Our parents, brothers, sisters, neighbors, environment, world, earth, even ourselves.
However, we should be also such a Coleric person, so that we do not only think, think, and think, care, care, care, and care, but we also ACT, WE ALWAYS HAVE TO TAKE AN ACTION to actualize our ideas, our thoughts.
Then we should such a Sanguin person who is always calm and relaxive as if he/she does not have any problems. We should not be too selfimposed regarding our thoughts, our plan, our lives. Just face every single second of our lives with smile, and let it flow as GOD has HIS best plan for each of us.
Nevertheless, if everything did not go our way, did not go the way we want, then we should behave like a Phlegmatic person who is always defencelessly, always live the life in peace. Always think that everything belongs to the ALMIGHTY, so that let's get pass everything with sincere.
I know that it is not an easy thing to do what I just wrote above. I know that each person has the dominan one character among the rests. One might have 65% Melancolic, 20% Sanguin, 15% Coleric, and no Phlegmatic. One might have 55% Sanguin, 45% Melancolic. We might have any mix of those characters. All we need to do is to MAXIMIZE every positive sides of our character, in MINIMIZE every negative sides of our character. Once again, you, all of us, need to read the book, because I think it is a general book, the most fundamental book that every one has to read.
Please accept my appologize for any mistaken words, for any shortage. Hope that my article would be very helpful for all of us.
