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He's finally called you and you are just itching to discuss what went wrong and how to fix it.

Don't do it!

If you want to get your ex boyfriend back this is what you need to do when he calls.

Only talk 10 minutes.

By keeping it short you are accomplishing three things.

  1. You are ending the call before he has a chance to have second thoughts about calling you.
  2. You are leaving him wanting more.
  3. It will keep you from trying to convince him to get back together - you don't have enough time.

Smile while you are talking to him.

Although he can't see you he will hear the difference in the tone of your voice.

Honestly research has shown that if a person smiles while talking on the phone the person on the other end can hear the difference.

Don't discuss any emotional details of your life.

The reason he's calling is because he misses you, maybe not as much as you want, but he does miss you.

If you start telling him about what's going on in your life he's going to regret calling you.

Leave the emotional details up to his imagination.

Don't talk about the past.

The last couple of conversations he had with you are what he's going to associate your relationship with.

Since he did break up with you, these aren't the feelings you want to bring up.

You want him to associate you with smiling, being happy and having a good time.

So, even if he brings it up, change the subject.

Finally let the first three or four calls go at his pace. Don't call him and don't pressure him to see you.

Keep these rules in mind when he calls you, and you are on your way to getting your boyfriend back.

What if he doesn't call? Read How To Get My Boyfriend Back - What To Do If He Doesn't Call.

If you want a complete plan to get him back check out How Do I get Him Back ?


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