What is reverse text terrorism? It will be one of the hardest things to deal with as you struggle to " ?tid=ab72" " get my ex back ." How do you deal with this painful problem? You're the victim of your ex texts. What can be done to avoid this situation, and get your ex back?
I Want My Ex Back, But Why All These Texts?
OK, here's the scenario your ex boyfriend, girlfriend, husband, or wife has left you. You are trying to get a hold of your emotions, maybe you bought a book and are following a plan...good for you! You are making a stand, and taking back control of your life. Now in comes your ex with the daily texts; "how are you, are you doing okay?" Now, this seems really sweet, they're only doing this because they still "care" about you, or maybe not? Your ex will go to great lengths to tell you they don't love you, but still really care a lot about you. How in the world is this supposed to help you get over the pain, and move on with your plans for the future?
What they are really doing is keeping themselves on your mind, so you can't move on...make sense? You"ll start thinking oh no, they're moving on, and my plans to get them back are not going to work. Where does this leave you? It leaves you in between a rock and a hard place. Meanwhile they're still out there dating "but nothing serious" like that's going to help you through this emotionally trying time. What is really happening here is they still have feelings for you, but are not willing to admit it. Why? I guess they are just trying to buy time, to either get over you completely, or to figure out what to do next. If you really want to "get my ex back" you better stop this right now, and stick to a plan.
How Do I Get My Ex Back Without Making Them Mad?
Well, how do you make an omelet without breaking any eggs? You can't. You either have some broken eggs, and a nice omelet, or a bunch of unbroken eggs, and an empty stomach. What I am trying to point out here is in-order to get your ex back you will have to take some risks, or remain where you're now for quite sometime. I say you need to follow a good plan that includes learning emotional control, that will help you to ignore these misleading messages from your ex. Now, this is only until you're ready to start reconnecting with them, and build a new relationship later on...it's not forever, so don't panic. Emotional control (controlling your panic) is the key to getting over heart break, and winning your ex back again.
The best thing for you to do is ignore these text messages, and block them (if that's possible). You don't need these mixed signals right now, and your ex should respect your wishes. If your ex boyfriend/girlfriend will not respect your wishes, and even become angry, it is very apparent that their motives were not as they said they were. They are worried about losing you for good, and they get frightened, and try to hide their fear with anger. So, you see it's not hopeless, they still deeply care about you, and want you back. But, for some reason they are not ready to admit it yet.
This is why 30 days no contact can work wonders to help both of you. But, because of mutual worries about each other moving on, neither of you will stick with NC long enough for it to work. If you still love your ex and want them back, you must ignore the texts, and stick with no contact, and you will get your ex back. If you do not believe this will work try it for a while. I have seen this many times over and over again, the ex calls just to say it's over and wish you best...but 4 times a week? Come on, the writing is on the wall...read it, and you'll feel better knowing that your ex wants you back too. What are you willing to do to ?tid=ab72" " get your ex back ?
Until next time,
S. Williams
~I know that love hurts but with my help you"ll get strong enough to kick loves ass~
