I'm new at this and need to know how to handle my cheating wife. Is this what you're trying to figure out? Thank goodness that most of the men around the world in your shoes are new to this. Cheating wives is something that is relatively recent, at least to the size and scope (nearly half of all people who admit to having affairs are women) that it is today.
There are plenty of reasons that this number is growing so much in recent years. One of the most compelling is that fact that more and more women are in careers today that place them on equal footing with men than ever before. But how should you handle things when you find out your wife is one of the one's doing the cheating?
View things from her Perspective
There are three sides to every relationship story. There is her side, his side, and then there is the truth. You're going to have to move out of your zone of familiarity and try to see things in the relationship with her eyes so you can understand her side of the story to some degree
You want to figure out why she's cheating on you. What is it the other guy is giving her that she isn't or feels she can't get from you? Get the answers to the questions you have by really looking at things with her eyes. You know your wife well enough that this should be doable though it may not exactly be easy.
Decide what You Want Next
The problem with handling a cheating wife is that you're probably going through some pretty heated on again and off again emotions. You're fluctuating between wanting to work things out and wanting to move on without your cheating wife. It's not all that uncommon.
You need to take a little bit of an emotional time out so that you can figure out what it is that you really want to happen now that you know about her cheating. Some marriages will make it. Unfortunately, not all of them do. Whether or not yours will get through this depends on both of you deciding what you want to happen and forging a path to get that outcome.
Make Sure it Doesn't Happen Again
One of the most important things that must be done when working on a marriage after cheating has thrown you both for a loop is taking decisive action to prevent this situation from happening again.
Find out why it happened now and make sure that situation never arises, for either of you, again.
