Want to learnhow to make your ex boyfriend come back? The good news is, you can do it. However, the first step in the process (and it's a critical step!) isbelievingthat you can.
Without that belief, nothing's going to happen, because you will subconsciously avoid taking the actions that are necessary to get him to want to return to you. But, if youdobelieve you can do it, then getting him back is almost a foregone conclusion.
Once you've become a believer, it's only a matter of time before he's back in your arms. So, are you ready to reclaim your lost love?
Once you've got belief down, you next have to work on your reactions to the break-up. If you're like most women, the first thing you did when he told you he wanted to break up was to freak out at the thought of life without him.
You may have even freaked out in front of him, which probably just reinforced his feelings that breaking up was a good idea. If you want to learnhow to make your ex boyfriend come back,anysort of public display of desperation is out.
Desperation is unattractive, and he'll want to stay far away from you if you seem like you're experiencing it. Even if you feel like your world is crumbling around you, keep it to yourself when you're around him (or anyone who knows him). Just stay calm, cool, and collected and you'll find he comes back to you a lot sooner than you imagined.
Don't try to remind him of things he said or did in the past, either. If he said he'd always love you and never leave you, don't bring that up to him after the break up. If he used to cook you dinner and rub your feet every night, don't get all nostalgic about it with him.
In fact, the best thing to do immediately after a break up is to avoid talking to him entirely for at least a month. Sure, it's hard to do, but the more you avoid him in the aftermath of your split, the less opportunity you'll have to come off looking pathetic or desperate to him. Plus, you'll be giving yourself time to work on a real, workable plan to get him back.
The key to learning how to make your ex boyfriend come back is to make him think it's all his idea. Make him want you again without knowing that you're doing anything to make him want you.
If you go about things the right way, not only will he want to call you, then see you, then take you out on a date again, he'll almost be begging to be allowed back into your good graces.
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