I'm looking for a few good men who want to learn how to save the marriage. I mean real men who screwed up their marriage by not paying attention at home, spending too much time at work, getting caught paying attention to someone else or just plain old being a lousy husband.
The following tip may help you but I must warn you that it might require you to turn in your man card and get a real man card instead.
Here's the tip to help you learn how to save the marriage.
Apologize To Your Wife (not by just saying I'm sorry)
Before you apologize you need to make a list of all of the important areas in your marriage where you know you haven't done your best. Maybe you should be spending more quality time at home or perhaps showing your wife how much you love her, or just being a great husband and father. You may not admit it but you know where you are slacking in your marriage.
Once you come up with a meaningful list commit to yourself that you are going to immediately begin improving these areas in your marriage. Obviously you don't want to apologize to your wife if you are going to continue being a slouch.
Let your wife know that you need to talk about your marriage and set up some private time where you won't be interrupted by kids or iPhones or other stuff. Warning! This may freak her out.
Once you get the quite time together began to explain to your wife how you feel that you have not been very good in some areas such as (this is where you refer to the list).
The goal here is not to try and figure out how to save the marriage in one sitting but rather to sincerely acknowledge your shortcomings and your desire to make drastic improvements.
You may catch your wife off guard by doing this but that's a good thing. Your wife may appreciate more than you will ever know that you took the time to think about how to improve the marriage and you didn't even blame her or ask her to change anything.
Try to keep the focus on you changing and not get drawn into a deep discussion on why things are how they are or why you are all of a sudden looking to change.
There are two important things you want your wife to know and feel in her heart when you are done discussing this. (a) You are sincere and will be making changes (b) You love her very much and want to spend the rest of your life with her.
It's ok to shed a few tears during this conversation as this could be the turning point in your marriage. Remember, it's important to have thought through the changes you are going to make and start making them as quickly as possibly. The best way to show your wife that you were sincere is to let her see a different you.
You will slip up from time to time but as long as your wife knows where your heart is and that you are trying you will begin transforming your marriage and no longer be one of the guys trying to figure out how to save the marriage.
There are a lot more tips you can learn to make your marriage not feel like a job but a wild and passionate adventure. Your marriage is in your hands.
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