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You want your ex boyfriend back, but you do not know what to say. When you broke up, both of you said plenty. Unfortunately it was all hurtful and demeaning words. That is why you are afraid to approach him, but you want him back. If you are thinking this way, you are on the right track because what you say can make the difference in getting him back or not. That does not mean that anything you say will be a mistake. In fact, there are words that can win back his love in a hurry and they might not be what you think.
When he broke up with you, your first instinct probably was to chase him and tell him you could not live without him. You might have followed up that mistake by bombarding him with emails and text messages. None of this had any effect except to make him pull farther away. Telling a man how much you love him and begging him to love you again will almost always be damaging. He does not want to hear that, all he wants is to be left alone. Men need time to sulk and sort things out. That is where they differ from women. Where you want to talk things out, he just wants to be left alone.
To get your ex boyfriend back, you only need to tell him two things. The first is to say you are sorry for your part in the breakup. Even though you feel that the breakup was his fault, you still had a part in it, so show him that you are mature enough to apologize. This will get his attention because he was expecting you to cry and beg again. The next thing you say will really get his attention. In fact it will leave him speechless. Tell him that you agree with his decision to breakup and add that you had been considering the same thing and end the conversation.
When he comes out of his stunned condition, he will start feeling the same rejection and sense of loss that you have been feeling. This will not be easy for you to do, but you have to turn things around if you ever hope to have a chance of getting him back. The next thing you should do is stop having any contact with him and drop out of sight. Let him think over what you have told him and if he still loves you he will be contacting you.
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