Your relationship has ended with your man and there is a big empty hole in your life and your heart. You are afraid that your may have lost your guy for forever. You still love him and you are not ready to give up on your relationship. You want to knowhow to win him back!
Does this describe you?
The good news for you is that close to 90% of all relationships can be saved. But you have to avoid some of the most made mistakes made by women shortly after a break up with their man.
I will discuss three of these mistakes later, but first I want to tell you about a proven plan on how to win him back. It is called "The Magic Love Recipe" and it is in the excellent relationship help e-book "The Magic of Making Up" by T.W. Jackson. I will tell you more about this great resource at the bottom of this article.
Ok, what mistakes should you avoid if your want to win him back.
1. Do Not Become A Stalker.
I know you don't think of yourself as a stalker, but you may seem like one if your constantly call/text, email or trying to contact him. This is probably one of the biggest mistakes you can make.
One of your first reactions after a break up is to contact your ex and tell him how much love him and you want to make things "right". But constantly trying to contact him will push him further away. He needs the space and time to realize how much he misses you. You also need the time to get a plan to win him back.
2. Do Not Beg Him To Take You Back-Be Strong.
This mistake usually closely follows the first mistake above. Once he doesn't return your stalker-like phone calls you decide you are going start begging him to take you back.
You may have heard the old saying "no one needs the needy" and it applies to your broken relationship with your ex. Begging, clinging, crying, and other desperate acts are more likely to repel your man rather than attract them.
You want resume or created a new relationship with your man based on love not pity. Even if your guy took you back because he felt sorry for you the relationship wouldn't last long. You would be right back where you are now. Keep the yelling and crying behind close doors if you want to win him back.
3. Do Not Give Him Mandates.
One part of you is telling you to give him some mandates and another part is telling you to start begging. Both are the wrong messages.
Issuing mandates like "if you don't come back by tomorrow or else" is not way to win him back. You can not scare or bullied a person to come back. You need to be flexible and try to correct what went wrong in the relationship. You have to become a listener not a shouter if you want to get your man back.
The above the mistakes are not meant to be a complete plan on how to win him back. They are just some of the mistakes you should avoid while you get a plan together.
I mentioned before "The Magic Love Recipe"a proven plan on how to win him back. It has helped over 6,000 people to get back together in happy relationships. This could be the best way of getting him back for you.
You chances of winning him back and being happy again are great as long as you avoid the most common mistakes and get a proven plan on how to win him back!
PS: You can watch a free video here on your first move you should make on how to win him back! Just scroll down the page to the video.
