After you have broke up with your girlfriend and you want her back, what you need is a step by step plan to follow that will get results. At this point it is not impossible for you to get back together with your ex girlfriend if you know what to do.
You have been hurt and you want your girlfriend back, and are ready to act, to do something right now. Men are generally geared to action, their first instinct is to get out there and do something.
Your first step is to do…Nothing! Do not rush things, let some time pass until you can start thinking more clearly and rationally. You are going through a rough situation and now is not the time to act blindly.
Although this may seem strange, you need to keep communication at a minimum. If you constantly call or send text messages to her, it will become very annoying and push her farther away.
Give the situation time to cool down a little before trying to make contact. This will also make her curious about you and what you are doing, remember that she is also missing you.
Some men have a hard time accepting they have broke up with their girlfriend but it is a fact. This may be hard to do, but it is time to face reality, she is gone, accept it for now.
Use this time to come clean with yourself.Think about it, and be honest about what went wrong with the relationship.
There are reasons your relationship has come to this point. What were you doing that resulted in her needs not being met? You need to figure this out before you can make the adjustments that will make it work this time.
Listen to this very carefully, Don’t Stalk Her. This includes ‘accidently’ running into her. Even if you have the urge to check out what she is doing or where she is going, DONT!
She will just deeply resent it and it will push her farther away, and it could even be seen as being illegal. Doing anything like this will doom your chances forever.
Although you want minimal contact at this point, keep the lines of communication open. If you do talk to her, keep it short, and be pleasant and open with her. You want her to feel that she can talk with you without any problems.
Whining, begging, or acting angry is just not going to work at all. Make her feel like you can talk together and be civil with each other.Treating her well will work wonders as opposed to trying to pressure her.
You may have broke up with your girlfriend, but remember your goal is to get get her back. Step back, take your time, this may take a while so keep in mind the saying, that time heels all wounds, let this work in your favor
By giving it a little time, and treating her decently, it will start her thinking about the fact that maybe you are not such a bad person after all. And the fact is that you do have a lot of good points that attracted her in the first place, so just be yourself.
This is your first plan of action. You have taken some time to start thinking more clearly and to come to grips with the situation, and more importantly with yourself. You have kept the lines of communication open, and treated her well, this is a big step forward towards getting her back.
You are now ready to move on to the next step.There is a common sense, down to earth, step by step guide to follow, that has helped thousands of men just like you. How to plan for a meeting, what you should say and do, and everything else you need to know to get her back, and keep her this time.
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