If you are saying "I feel my marriage is falling apart", my heart goes out to you. I have been in such a position in my life and I know what it feels like to be living your life in a state of so much uncertainty.
You know as well as I do that life is not meant to be like this. Sharing your life with the one that you love is meant to be a journey of fun, sharing, caring and facing life's hurdles together. It is certainly not meant to be a sole journey filled with sadness, arguments, uncertainty and fear and lacking in love.
Many people in your position find a situation like this way too hard and decide that going it alone is a better option than staying in an unhappy marriage. No doubt, this is an option that you have seriously thought about in recent times. Before you take such a drastic and final step, I would encourage you to think long and hard about doing this. You might feel that you will be better off doing so, but before you do, I would encourage you stand strong in the hope that you can sort out your issues.
As I said earlier, I have been in a position where I was saying "I feel my marriage is falling apart", but thankfully, I didn't walk away. Together we managed to get to the bottom of our problems and I am proud to say that between the two of us we were able to settle our differences and get our marriage back on track.
I am also proud to say that our marriage today is stronger than it has ever been and I am so glad that I didn't take the path to the divorce court that so many of my friends have. Interestingly, a number of my divorced/separated friends are still not happy in their lives despite taking steps to find happiness again. In fact, I know some that regret going down the divorce path in the first place.
The key to this whole issue is learning how to communicate with each other. Not just talking, but being totally honest with each other and being comfortable enough to tell your partner what is really on your mind. If you can get back to the basics and have a good old fashioned "heart to heart", you will be amazed at how your problems will start to disappear.
There is on old saying that I have adopted in my life and that is "you cannot fix something unless you know that it is broken". This is why getting each other to discuss your feelings in an open, honest and loving manner you will get to know what needs fixing. The best part is that once you know what the problems are, you can work together to fix them.
Stop say, "I feel my Marriage is Falling Apart" and start working together to get that loving feeling back into your lives.
It is a sad fact of life that many marriages do end.
If you are saying, I feel my marriage is falling apart , you can end it or you can try and fix it.
At times like this, knowing where to turn and who to turn to can be difficult.
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