You've just broken up, you're heartbroken. You are often wondering " How do I get my ex boyfriend back". Not all relationships are the same and not every break up is the same. Because of this there are things you can do to get back with him.
The first thing, which may sound a little obvious, is to be nice. A lot of women miss the point here, they nag and beg to try to get what they want. It rarely works though. By nagging you are probably reminding him of why he broke up with you. If seeing you becomes a pain for him he will avoid seeing you as much as he can.
At this stage you do not want to drive him away further. Try to be as nice as you can while you are around him. If you find you have to be a total fake just to appear nice then you should be wondering "Do I want my ex boyfriend back" instead of "How do I get my ex boyfriend back."
If you can be nice when you see him, whatever problems caused the breakup won't seem as important now. You may wonder why you both weren't as nice as this more often before you split.
Remember though that you can't go back and change things now. When you get him back, point this out and let him know that sometimes you did take him for granted. At this stage though don't expect him to admit the same, however true it is.
Other things you may try might work well for you, but be warned they could also backfire.
How do I get my ex boyfriend back if he has a new girlfriend?
This is the most difficult situation to overcome. It's hard being alone with him knowing his thoughts probably lie elsewhere. You are his past and not his number one priority anymore. However being nice here is absolutely vital. You must make him realise just how great you are and what he's missing by not being with you.
How do I get my ex boyfriend back by tricking him?
You might, but as soon as he finds out the relationship will be dead for ever. What seems an innocent lie will come back to haunt you later. Why put hard work into getting him back with dishonesty only to be dumped later? Put the work in honestly now and it will pay dividends later.
How do I get my ex boyfriend back by making him jealous?
The idea here is that he sees you with a new date, or hears about your new date and starts to think maybe he made a mistake breaking up. There's a big danger here though in that he may think you've got a new boyfriend and moved on. This could be disastrous to your plan of getting back together. Be honest with people, and your ex, and you stand a better chance of getting him back.
You can make these steps the beginning of your "get him back" plan. I used these steps when I split with my lover. It's critical that you do something,no action = no results!
