Is there a wrong way to use the Law of Attraction? People who are new to the concept of the power of their thoughts often ask this question.
The most straightforward answer is that the only wrong way to use the Law of Attraction is if you are trying to coerce someone into doing something to get what you want.
For example, you might meet someone attractive and decide, "Oh, this is the one for me. So I'll just concentrate on getting them to want me the way I want them."
For one thing, if you are basing a potential relationship on looks alone, it won't go very far. For another, what if that person is already happily involved with someone else?
A better way to deal with finding someone to care for, who will also care for you, is to start with a statement, an affirmation that tells you that you are now in a wonderful relationship with someone whom you love, and who really, truly thinks the world of you.
You may know a lot of people, but remember, the Universe knows about 7 billion people. Trust the Law of Attraction to align your thoughts with the Universe to bring you just the right person, and the relationship you will find will really be special. The Universe will bring you someone who is meant for you, and you alone.
The same thing goes for a job or career that you want. Don't covet someone else's job. For one thing, you'll be on shaky ground if something unfortunate happens and you do get that person's job...you'll always be aware that what happened to the person whom you have replaced could also happen to you.
Trust the infinite possibilities that the Universe contains, and trust the Law of Attraction to bring you the ideal job foryou, and you alone.
The same goes for a car, or a house, or any material thing you could possibly want. You do not want to take it away from someone else so that you can have it, - you want something like it.
So when you write down what you want, write it as though you already have it. Enjoy the feelings that well up in you as you allow your imagination free rein, acting as though this is already something you possess, and always end with a gentle reminder that, "I accept this, or something even better, for the highest good of all concerned."
