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Marriage isn't always easy. As a matter of fact, it's often really hard work. And if you've been married for a long time, things can also get kind of routine or boring. Now if you throw that into the equation of either approaching or entering your 40's, things can get pretty confusing.
It's easy to blame your unhappiness on your spouse. She's busy working and running the household (maybe too busy for you), and you may not find her as attractive as you once did when you both were younger. You may even be contemplating an affair or have already had one. The tricky thing with all of this confusion is, it may be more about you than it is about your spouse.
When we reach our 40's as men, we start asking ourselves many questions. Have we accomplished what we've wanted do in life? Are we happy with our spouse, is she really the woman for me? Are we still vital and attractive to other women? And the big one.......how long will we live? It can be pretty scary and confusing.
Sometimes these questions can be hard to ask ourselves, and even harder to answer. But yes it does tend to really make us question the relationship with our spouse. There are many things you can do to remedy these feelings, but it will require honesty with yourself first.
One school of thought is, we fall in love and get connected with our spouse when life is easy and much simpler, and before we have developed into the men we are today. Then life gets busy! A career, a mortgage, kids, home renovations, debt, etc etc, etc. Then we wake up one morning in our 40's and we ask ourselves, "is this really who I want to spend the next half of my life with?" Good question. Great question! Please know you are not alone, it's a pretty normal and commonly asked question.
Now there are specific things you can do about these feelings. Doing the wrong thing can actually make your situation worse. If you want to face your feelings and find out that you actually are not alone with this confusion, visit this site .
You don't have to worry about feeling worse and starting down the path to divorce. You can control the situation by facing these feelings of confusion. Find out right here what you need to be doing to ensure you do the right thing.
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