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Many people struggle with "succeeding" in life for basically one reason. There is a missing ingredient. I will tell you HOW to identify your custom ingredient that will make life exciting, just short of addiction. Then, I will show you how to
actually get what you want in life using one very efficient and effective method.
Let's get right to the point.
First and foremost you must go after the PRECISE thing you desire. Now this may sound obvious to you but from looking at the amount of searches relating to "how to achieve your goals" or "how to become successful at ...," it seems there are a lot of
people missing this key ingredient. Let's make sure you understand what I mean by precise because this is important.
Let's take the all too popular subject of money. Sure, most of us want more money. Then why don't we just get a second job...because that will produce more money, right? Well, it also takes up a lot of our time and will probably increase our
stress levels, and that's not what we want. How about investing our money? Sounds better because although it requires some work upfront, it just requires a little maintenance along the way. But what if you don't have money to invest? Now we're
looking for ways to generate (passive) income with little or no investment. Ahhh, we're getting hotter! Ask yourself, "What will be the ultimate way to generate income (for you, personally)?" Just keep drilling down to pinpoint your precise desire.
How do we know it's our true desire? Easy. We will move and actually want to do something to find that answer that gets us our desire.
What we're doing is finding the precise thing that makes us tick (take action) and that is KEY to achieving anything you want. The more you know what it is that you want, the more you will be able to recognize opportunities when they stare you right in the face. And, you will not have to use will power because you actually WANT to find the solution to getting your desire fulfilled.
Now, let's get to achieving your crystal clear desire.
Wouldn't it be great if you can become a "Master" (or at least good enough to be viewed as a master) at something that interest you? Now, because it is personal, it can be anything, i.e. crafting up a scrapbook, losing weight, gaining muscle, the "best" way to make a living, etc.
Well there is a very practical way to turn your desires in to reality.
In this technique you will actually be influencing yourself by reinforcing things you already learned from research you enjoyed and WANTED to do. And the best part is that you will be getting it done at the same time. Let me explain.
It has been said that there are four phases in learning:
1. You learn by taking in information from books, videos, the internet, etc.
2. You learn by doing.
3. You learn by teaching others.
4. You learn by getting feedback from those you taught. Because we all have different talents and perspectives, others will discover things that you could never think of.
If you discover your true desire, you will have no problems completing #1 and probably #2. But take a look at number 3.
To some people it might be viewed as a "burden" and a time consumer. But to the adroit person there are hidden benefits in teaching.
Here are 3 that I can see: 1) You harness the power of Repetition 2) You get it done "effortlessly" 3) You engage the Principle of Reciprocity.
Let's take the first benefit. When you teach someone, you are reviewing all the things you actually know AND discovering what you really don't know. When you keep repeating something over and over it becomes truth. And you retain truth in your
memory for a long time.
The second benefit is it gets you to take action on something you want to get done anyway. This is perfect for the person who's having a little trouble getting started with the project. In order to show someone how to do something you have to
know how to do it first. This gets you to practice achieving your desire so you can teach it. So the thought of having to show someone how to do it is the "trigger" that gets you to take action. With your focus on showing the other person how to do it correctly, you get through the task effortlessly! Now you can teach someone and cash in on the next benefit.
The third benefit is that you are doing something good for someone else, in which case, based on the law of reciprocity, you will get paid back many times more. And it's not just one time. Because word spreads, you will keep benefiting passively for many years to come.
Now how's that for "killing THREE birds with one stone?"
But what if you can't find anyone that wants to learn what you know? Not to worry because you still can at least "kill TWO birds with one stone."
Use the gift that only we humans have...our imagination.
Just teach an imaginary person. I know that sounds odd but it is truly effective. You don't have to talk out loud so others think you are insane. You can just whisper to yourself to get the beneficial effects. You can take it one step further and come up with questions a beginner might ask and see if you know the answers. You will benefit from the 1) repetition aspect and 2) taking action aspect.
A spin-off of this technique is the "self-talk" technique. You know that little voice inside you that says, "skip your workout," or "put off that project until tomorrow," or "...?" Well, you can actually talk yourself into what you want done.
Why are YOU the best one to turn to? For one, you will ALWAYS be there to motivate and influence yourself no matter where you are in this world. And two, you are the best motivator because only you know what you are thinking at that SPECIFIC time. No paid professional can read your thoughts like you can. Therefore, only YOU know what buttons to push to make you react and move.
So, a quick recap on how to succeed in life:
1. You need to identify your TRUE desire. You are unique. Therefore, you have different motivating thoughts.
2. Seek the information that will get you your desire.
3. Practice it to a point where you can teach others and reap eternal benefits.
4. Go find another desire and repeat.
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