If you are stuck right now, reflect to see if you are holding on to anything from your past. Holding on - blocks good things coming into your life in the future. Don't blame yourself or anyone else, its' a vicious circle and can be both painful and stressful.
Stock-take your life, search your Soul for clues on what is blocking,, get rid of the grudges.
Everyone comes into your life for a REASON a SEASON or a LIFETIME.
They stay until their assistance in your life in no longer necessary. They may offer guidance or support, emotionally or physically. At the time they are an answer to a prayer. But when the time is up they will move on. Perhaps you have an encounter that brings the relationship to an end, they may pass away or move on. Remember they have provided for your need for that time only, you have learned a lesson by knowing them, heed it and move on.
Others have come into your life for a short time(Season).
To help you gain experience of life together. They make you happy and joyful. They teach you to share and grow. They bring contentment and tranquillity to your time together.
Enjoy living in the moment of this special time
Long term relationships are a wonderful experience, you learn lessons to carry you through life. The joy of sharing and caring is priceless . Use the lessons of unconditional love, acceptance in all other relationships. Learn to forgive and build bridges(trust)again
Don't blame your parents for providing you with a poverty ticket, no love or any other reason. You are an adult now, and have the ability to make decisions. You parents did their best according to their circumstances. Stop the blame and do something about forgiveness, it's your green light to a future of prosperity.
Exercise for letting go of the past
STEP 1Acceptance, you wish to forgive this person. Write it down, (acknowledgement)
STEP 2Awareness, Make a list of the people ( your ex, friend, relation etc.,) Focus on that person standing in front of you, imagine a cord linking them to your heart, take a deep breath and on the out breath imagine yourself cutting that cord and allow the person floating away on a white cloud, now you feel free. The grudge has gone.
Recheck your body with two more deep breaths, then- wish the person freedom.
STEP 3Write down anything that is making you stuck right now.
- Money
- Relationships
- Work related issue
- Anything else
Be gentle with yourself, allow time to ask , what is this showing me right now?
Example: My ex partner cheated. What is the lesson I have learned
- I deserve better, and have my respect.
- The relationship was restricting my true potential
- I am enjoying my freedom and have time for new adventures.
- I love myself and will meet someone who is worthy of my trust and love.
You have released the blockages that have been holding you back and learned lessons, Enjoy your new found freedom.
