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Life is full of choices. What life should I choose? Where should I live? Should I remain in an unhappy marriage? These are all major life-changing decisions. Sometimes it’s a challenge to us and it can be very had for us to come up with tangible solutions in our lives. You can certainly choose to make them haphazardly and without careful consideration, but you’ll be the one who has to live with the consequences. If you don’t think creatively to come up with long lasting answers life will be in turmoil and we shall forever live in regrets. For example you might be not in good terms with your wife and feel that I need a divorce, and probably might want to start looking at the problem from multiple perspective to search for a answers and maybe some of the suggested answers you might come up with and write them down; · I should seek for a divorce immediately · I should seek for a counselor to help us · I should just keep quite maybe things might be ok one day · Should open up and we discuss the matter together and maybe we might come up with a long-term solutions. While even writing them can’t overcome the major limitations of our conscious minds to systematically consider solution spaces with millions of possibilities, writing things through is at least a step in the right direction. We still have to delegate a major part of our decision-making to our subconscious minds, I am amazed by the fact that the more of this process we can pull into our conscious minds (by using either paper or a computer screen as an extension of our consciousness), the more clarity and focus we gain in knowing that our decisions are the right ones. And in the long run, after years of exercising the mental discipline to make more conscious decisions, we reap the harvest of far greater results.
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