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"My ex girlfriend hasn't called me! Should I call her?"
It's one of the biggest questions asked after a breakup. You want your ex back worse than anything else in the world, but you know in your heart that she must come to you. At the same time, you're trying to fight the urge to call her. Hearing her voice again is your only goal.
So what should you do when she hasn't contacted you yet? Are there actually ways of getting your ex to call you?
The answer to that question is a resoundingYES... provided you know the right methods and techniques for drawing out that contact. Talking to your ex after the break up is a delicate balance between good communication and bad. You'll need to learn exactly what to say, how to say it, and most important of all? When to re-open the lines of communication.
When to Call Your Ex Girlfriend
Immediately after she dumps you is NOT the time to contact your ex. Right now she feels strange and weirded out around you, and she probably knows you still want her. Instead of calling her as she expects you to, this is the time to lay low and stay silent. Don't call, text, email, or otherwise get in touch with her. As she begins thinking you're over the relationship and may even be moving on, your ex will actuallystart to miss you. This is the best time to get back in touch when your ex girlfriend hasn't called you.
How To Contact Your Ex When You Want Her Back
Some of the best methods for getting back in touch with your ex include techniques that force her to call you. If you happen to still have something that belongs to her (and it should be something important... not her Shrek DVD), that's a great reason for reaching out. Call her at a time she's not at home, and leave a message so she has to call you back. This is one simple way to get your ex to initiate contact, so you can re-establish a connection with her. There are many other greatreconnection techniquesyou can also use, depending upon how long you dated your girlfriend, how close you were to her family, etc...
What To Say When Your Ex Girlfriend Calls
One of the biggest things you need to remember about receiving the ex girlfriend phone call is this: calm, cool confidence. Even if you're nervous you should never sound like it. You want to convey the message that you're actually busy, so pick up the phone on the fourth or fifth ring. Be chipper and cool. Tell her it's good to hear from her, but don't not overly excited that she called. Act as if everything in your life is going extremely well, and when she asks what's up, let her know things are going great. Thenget off the phone quickly- stay on no longer than three or four minutes - and apologize for having to go so soon. By ditching the phone call so quickly and by acting in such a positive way, your ex will wonder what the hell you've got going on that's so important you didn't stick around to talk to her.
This marks the beginning of your ex chasing you.The balance of power shiftsonce your ex girlfriend starts thinking that you don't want her back. Of course you do... but she's not aware of that anymore. Now you're on more equal footing, and any communication you have will be on a more even basis. If you're sitting around lamenting my ex girlfriend hasn't called me, it's because right now she's holding all the cards. You need to take back some of the power she took from you the moment she dumped you.
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