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You may be wondering "what should I do ifmy girlfriend wants to break up with me?".  The very first thing you should do when she suggests a break up is to agree with her.  This may seem insane if you are hoping to stay together, but it is not.  It is all part of a proven program for getting back together with your ex.

Agreeing with, and encouraging, a break up is your first step in a process that is proven to have your ex-girlfriend begging to come back.  You never want to beg or plead.  This makes you appear desperate and is not attractive to anyone.  It will surely throw your girlfriend for a loop when you tell her that you have been thinking that a break up and time apart are a great idea.

Allow her to go.  Whether you live together or not, do not stand in the way of her leaving. In fact, once she suggests the break up, you should insist that it all happen right away.  This does not mean being rude and making sure she takes everything on the spot.  It does mean that you are not going to let her call all of the shots.  If she is going to leave, let her go.  Remember, this is all part of a plan to make her believe that her leaving is not going to devestate you.  She will be curious and intrigued.

Whatever you do, do not call her or answer her calls the first night after the break up.  Whether she admits it or not, she will be wondering what you are up to.  She will not be able to get you off of her mind.  Your plan is in motion!

These are the first steps to take when you find yourself thinking "my girlfriend wants to break up with me".  If you follow a break up plan, she will be knocking at your door in no time.


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