There are times when good relationships must come to an end. You did everything you can do and the situation is just not going to recover. Ending relationships are hard to do, but they are a fact of life. On the other hand, there are times when good relationships come to an end prematurely. These are the truly unfortunate instances.
What makes a relationship come to an end prematurely? Typically, two loving and mostly happy couples let little things get between them and they’re just not familiar with how to resolve these things.
If you find you’re part of a relationship that is heading toward an end, ask yourself the following questions:
1) Have you both fully discussed the issues that are tearing you both apart?
I’m not talking about some basic chit-chat. I’m talking about sitting down privately and focusing on what the issues are, and working together to try and find a workable solution for both of you.
2) Are you still in love with your partner?
If you’re not in love, you’re not in love. However, you should know that every relationship has its good moments and its not-so-great moments. Simply because you’ve had some bad times doesn’t necessarily mean you stop loving one another. It means you need to start communicating more.
3) Does your partner tend (or try to tend) to your physical and emotional needs?
If not, guess what? You’re probably in a normal relationship. It’s unfortunate, but for most couples the fire that was once there simply fades to a certain degree over time. Again, communication is the key to any successful relationship and it will do wonders for your physical and emotional needs as well.
Now, if you answered yes to number 1, and you truly believe it, then that’s a bad sign. Because it indicates that you both know what really bothers the other person and neither of you were satisfied with your team effort on how to resolve it. However, there is still hope, especially if you’re still in love with your partner. You can always find great help on how to give-and-take from one another. I’ll talk more about that in a moment.
If you answered no to number 2, then it’s probably over, sadly. A relationship needs love to survive, happily.
If you answered no to number 3, then it’s probably time that you and your partner got some relationship help. Don’t fear, even the closest relationships need some help from time to time. The sad part is when they don’t take it.
As long as you love your partner, and your partner loves you, then you both owe it to each other to seek a helping hand from someone that specializes in bringing couples together and finding common ground.
I was in this same situation myself. In fact, my partner left me. After a few months of devastation and searching on the Internet for a reason for her leaving, I found some outstanding techniques to really take our relationship to the next level. I won her back, and now we’re set to get married. You can certainly benefit from these techniques as well.
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