There are a lot of techniques and tips out there about getting back a girlfriend that can actually do a LOT more harm than good. In fact, if you are enticed to use those old school methods like writing letters and buying jewelry to get back your ex girlfriend, you might want to read this first. After all, if those methods worked so well, why would so many guys keep lamenting over the girl that they lost?
An ex girlfriend can be tough to understand. I mean, you thought you did, but then she broke up with you, so now you realize that maybe you did not get her as much as you thought. Trust me, I know what this feels like. And it's not exactly pleasurable.
Here are 4 things you should be doing if you want her back:
1. You should be carrying on with your life.One of the hardest things to get over is realizing that you CAN get on and live a good life without her by your side. Especially if you have been together for a while, it can be tough to really imagine yourself being happy without her. But you have to be that way, especially if you want to win her back.
2. You should be flirting with her when you get the chance.Don't be one of those guys that looks all serious or sad when you see your ex girlfriend. That is not going to get her all wound up inside in a good way. When she sees that you seem happy and you are flirting with her, she is going to flirt back with you. And that is the beginning of bringing back the attraction.
3. You should be able to understand that you have to put your time in.I cannot tell you how many guys get discourage when they find out they cannot get her back by tomorrow. If you want to have realistic expectations, then it can take some time to actually get it right and get her back. Be prepared for this, and don't get discouraged at the first sign that things are not going your way.
4. You should be learning how to use female psychology as a way to bring her back.Look, getting to know what really makes a woman want to come back means that you have to have a good understanding of the female psychology of attraction. Otherwise, you don't have much more than a wish to fall back on.