Has things changed with your partner? Is there doubt creeping into your mind about your partner? Just what are the signs of a relationship breakup?
Four signs of a possible relationship breakup
One…space. Is there a distance between you and your mate that wasn't there before? You may not understand what it is, but there is just something different.
Two…change in habits. Does your spouse behave differently? Does he or she get up earlier, go to bed later, get home later, begins eating alone? These changes can be widely varied and subtle. Little changes that are just different. Maybe, a sudden interest in a totally new subject.
Three…lack of interest in touching. Have you and your lover always touched when near each other, held hands and showed physical interest in each other, and that suddenly changed? If a person has lost interest in their mate they no longer want physical contact. This may include sex, but sometimes guys will still be very sexually active. After all they are male.
Four…communication. Do you just not talk anymore? A change in time spent together talking needs attention. Has he started reading the paper at the table? Does she appear too busy to talk when you get home? People who are interested in each other want to know what’s going on in the other person’s life.
All of the above does not, necessarily, mean your mate is having an affair. Although, it can. It could be the spark is just gone. If that is the reason that can be a quick fix.
Just start dating again. You fell in love because you spent fun time together. Spend fun time together again and see what happens. It can make all the difference in the world.
If the break is more serious we need to get busy and fix this thing before it is too late. Relationships are complicated things. But, you are not the first to have problems. There have been relationship breakups since the first cave man and woman.
The good news is there have been, and still is, a lot of relationship difficulties. Where there is a man and a woman there is potential for problems. All this means that with all that history there is a lot of experience in relationships. Experience you can use to permanently fix your problems with your partner.
Yes, there are therapist with degrees as long as your arm who counsel people on their relationship breakup problems, but if that therapist has never experienced a breakup in their life it is hard for them to realize where the rubber really meets the road.
Someone with personal experience can share on a level no one else can reach. There are many experienced counselors who can lead you back to the perfect relationship with the one you love.
Think about it. People get back together every day. You probably know couples who have had a bad split, maybe even a divorce, and now they are as close as peas in a pod.
If it is possible for them it is possible for you. So, get busy find the right relationship coach for you and your mate, and get back into each others arms again. After all making up can be great.
The sooner you get started on your relationship problems the sooner you can get back together. More info can be found at . Look for the "Free Video".
