Humans are the most blessed species at this point of time ( who knows when some-one/thing called aliens and UFO's will snatch away this pride from us !!!) We are above all other species because we are obliged with a special gift of nature: a gift that can be nurtured, a gift that is like cocoon striving to mature into a beautiful butterfly and fly to the distant land of colours,fragnance and knowledge. This gift is learning with experience, improving & pushing ourselves to the next level.We all are gifted with intelligence and can develop ourselves through SELF IMPROVEMENT.
"Survival Of The Fittest" goes the theory of DARWIN which in itself justifies the need of improvement. Even in todays scenario, self improvement is not a choice but a necessity. Self improvement can be in any field. We'll try to figure out how to improve so that we can be more compatible for todays world.
Few simple steps could bring a drastic improvement in one's personality provided one does not behave like a nihilist.
- Free oneself from all the shackles and preconceived notions. Let your perception not be strangled by halo effect or stereotyping.This will help you in taking things as they come . You will become more susceptible to changes & can think more rationally and logically. For self development it is very important that things should be taken at their face value.this will alliw you to see world from a new viewpoint.
- Don't be mawkish or idiosyncratic for anything. One's you see world from a different dont consider that you are a person robbed off all the attributes, sense, thinking. Understand that no one is perfect and perfection is gained with time.
- One who achieve the two above said point are ready from within to change for betterment & now you can follow the MANTRAS given below and enjoy the new personality of yours.
1) Start reading NEWSPAPER. Newspaper are the best way of updating yourself & improving knowledgebase.
2) Try and be voluble so that you can express yourself in a better manner to others.
3) Don't be narcissistic and try your hand at different fields. May be English music, French etc.
4) Do things in a different manner.Can you recall who is Mr Ignatius Anabdappa ? Probably no. And what about Mr Billy Bowden? yes. We all know him as umpire in CRICKET . The former one is also umpire. Then what made the difference. Its the unique style of Bowden to tell sixes what makes him apart from his counterparts.
5) Don't be acerbic in tone.Learn to praise others.
6) Last but not the least, take this whole process as a beautiful satisfying experience and not as a rigourous exercise.
Now, you all are ready my friends to enjoy a LIFE, a LIFE filled with the beauty of the world, a LIFE filled with the light of the world, a LIFE worth saying a "HUMAN LIFE".
