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One of the greatest things a grown child can do to their aging parents is to look after their welfare and care in their senior years. These tasks are not always easy. At times it can be overwhelming, very challenging and difficult. But who would take care of these aging parents and love them in their helpless and difficult years? Aren't we the children they reared and care for when we were also helpless and incapable to fend for ourselves? Aging parents are usually vulnerable and sensitive and at times guilty of being a burden to their kids and always aware of being at the mercy of their children or caregivers. It is always a wise move to discuss with them your good intention to help them meet their needs in a way you can and to ask them how they want to spend their golden years. Should there be some differences in your opinion, do not impose what you think or want but rather respect their decision. But if what they opted for is impossible or extremely difficult for you and for them, in the most diplomatic way, explain what is best for both of you. According to some statistics, most elderly would rather remain in their current home or environment. Moving to a new place is something traumatic and will give them a feeling of being disconnected from their roots, their identity and their comfort zone. Allowing them to stay in their home will somehow give them a sense of independence, being in control as they preserve their dignity. Arrange for hired help, community services or family friends to monitor and assist them in their daily living and activities. Let your siblings, spouses and children get involved too and take their turns in care-giving and in providing financial assistance or paying bills if needed. If at all possible, let your elderly parent stay with you and live with you in the comfort of your home. They would definitely be watched and cared for better than being isolated in their old home. Besides, the grandparents and the grandchildren would have a chance to bond together and the children would be given a perfect example on how to care for aging parents. There may come times, however, that you or your kids may get exasperated or disappointed or bitter about your parent's attitudes. In times like this, keep your cool and be patient and try to understand them. Sometimes your parent's attitude has something to do with the infirmities and insecurities that go along with their aging. Let us encourage them to be busy and be involved to lessen their vulnerability. It is a common knowledge that the secret of aging well boils down to being active, having a right diet and exercise. Most of all let us enjoy their presence in our lives because they are the link between the past and the present. Let us give them the loving care they need and deserve. Let your elderly parents know that you need them, too.
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