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Did you know that love often has nothing to do with a cheating man? Many women feel that a man couldn't possibly cheat on them and still love them. In fact, many women equate fidelity with love. But, it is rarely that cut and dried.

It's like patriotism. You can be patriotic and love everything about your country and still want to visit other places. Oddly enough, visiting these other places often makes you appreciate your home country even more.

While you're probably not interested in hearing how cheating might help your man appreciate you a little more it is true and does happen more than most women - especially those who do not yet know about their husband's cheating - realize.

So, what does love have to do with your cheating man?

Probably less than you're giving him or his love for you credit for. Cheating isn't about love. Cheating is about getting a specific need met. For some guys it's the risk of getting caught. For other men it is about flattery and ego. Some other men find the other woman to be an escape from the flaws (few though they may be) of their wives. There are as many reasons for cheating as there are men and most of the time a lack of love for their wives isn't on that list.

If that's the case, then how can you prevent him from cheating in the future?

It's a good question that may seem hopeless but it isn't. The first thing you need to do is try and get a good idea about why he cheated in the first place.

Common Reasons Men Cheat

1) Risk. Some men need risk in their lives. They believe it makes them feel more alive. Whatever the reason these risk takers need the thrill of the hunt and the risk of getting caught. It's hard to counteract this without becoming involved in some serious "risk themed" role playing with your husband. Give him the thrill without the potential spills. It's an option that is definitely worth exploring for the sake of your marriage.

2) Ego. This one is a bit easier (and oddly enough, more common as a reason for cheating) to deal with. Stroke his ego. You know his weaknesses and how to flatter him best. Engage in some heavy duty flattery (very little is too far over the top but you know your husband best) and see what a difference it makes in his happiness at home and his attitude towards you.

3) Escape. Some men find that their home lives are not what they hoped they would be. The other woman provides an escape from the demands and chaos of home. If you want to make sure he doesn't turn to other women make sure your home isn't driving him into their arms.

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