The Importance Of Self Appreciation
Self appreciation is very important in today's competitive world.It requires the ability to be aware of each bit of our work and carry out the work in a best possible manner so as to be perfect in every walk of life.If we do our work perfectly we can be aware of it.We can know our capacity and we should not hesitate to praise ourselves,which gives a tremendous boost to prepare ourselves for the next challenge of life.Life is short.we should not wait for the appreciation from others for our deeds.we are the better judge to judge ourselves and evaluate our works and if possible we should congratulaste ourselves with a reward.It carries a great value and helps us to face all the challenges of life with a positive mindset.
The organisation today-in today's organisation we see that the management has become very critical about our performance and we always depend on the management to be appreciated for our achivements.By this we always depend on others for every good work we do and we want to be appreciated.The management always expects more and we there fore sometimes become helpless being abused by the management for not reaching our targets.We should be aware of our potentiality and inspite of the abuse of the management no harrasment should be able to shake our confidence.We should appreciate ourselves for any work we do.By this we can develop self confidence and grow further in any endevour of life.
Our family-Most of the householders in their family life are abused by their wives for not gaining the things in life as expecte4d by them.They are not satisfied by the performance of their husbands.This carries a negetive impact on their lives.For this the house wives should be educated in medias that the head of the family carries a greater risk for outside works and all care should be taken to keep him in good harmony in home front.If inside we are not strong we can not face the outside world.So a good harmonious relationship is essential between husband and wife and each should appreciate other for his/her work,there by giving each other a boost to work in a vibrant manner.
Self love-For self appreciation we need self love.We should love and appreciate our selves.The events may come and go ,but the love for ourselves is constant and true.The thoughts in our mind should be full of love for ourselves.We should develop unconditional love for ourselves.If we love ourselves we can be loved by others and we can also love others and we will feel a greater appreciation from others,because by self love we can work in a magnificent manner.Love is our birth right.We can not think bad about ourselves,expect the thought of love and this love will make all our works good and we will be able to appreciate ourselves in every step of life.
The external world-Now-a-days we have become habituated in comparing ourselves with others.By this we develop a lot of imagined mental inadequacy within ourselves.This gives us a saddistic mantality always and we always develop some sort of emotional reaction within ourselves and always feel tired and become unable to perform a work for a long time.The quality of works become poor.We should get ourselves away from the comparision trap and should be conteted and happy for what ever we have.The universe has plenty for us.So instead of being swayed away by the external world and it's false vanities ,we should think of our inner potential ,which is infinite.We can acchive any thing in life.Our mind should vibrate in positivity with the song of the universe and with a positive attitude we should see the world.Then we can appreciate ourselves better and achive our goal.
We and our feelings-We should always take care of ourselves and our feelings about ourselves and others should be so good that they will serve as tonics to carry out our works in a smooth manner.we may hear lot of criticisms about ourselves inside the organisation ,in families and in societies.We should not be perturbed by this.Rather we should be like a stone man and keep our head erect to face any challenges of life,because we have many miles to go before we leave this world.Our feelings have resounding effect.If we have always good feelings ,then all good things will be echoed by the universe and we will get what we desire.So the feelings are important part of our lives.By developing good feelings always we can make our thoughts beautiful and our works will be better and we can be able to appreciate ourselves always and climb on the ladder of success happily.
Time is short.We have to achive many things in life not only for us ,but also for our family and society.So let us be not critical .Let us always develop a relaxed attitude.Let us leave aside innimical feelings and love life better.By this we can elliminate lot of reactions from mind and work more qualitatively with a greater degree of self aprreciation.
