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Divorce is never easy for anyone involved, but men often make the situation worse for themselves. Here are the top 3 mistakes that men make and how you can avoid them:

Mistake #1)Assuming Your Ex Will Be Civil

Many men assume their ex-wife will be civil troughout the proceedings because she has been reasonable leading up to the divorce. Don’t make this mistake. Divorce creates a very tense emotional state in women and her friends will be giving her all sorts of unsolicited ‘advice’. Separate your joint accounts immidieatly or risk having your ex go on a shopping spree as a form of revenge. You do not want to start your new single life with bad credit. Do the simple thing and let your bank know that no spending can be done without written consent by both of you. Also cancel shared credit cards.

Mistake #2)Getting Too Attached to Petty Things

Many men get to emotionally attached to petty things which will only create a long and drawn out divorce and that means more lawyer fees. It’s natural to want to fight over these things to keep your dignity, but it won’t help you much in getting the big things to go your way. Custody, alemony and wealth protection should be your main focus. Keep in mind, that your ex may use things of sentimental value against you and may even be encouraged to do so by her lawyer.

Mistake #3)Talking Bad About the Ex In Front of the Kids

Don’t worry so much about defending your point of view to your kids. You are better of explaining what is happening in a calm manner and letting them know that you will continue to be there for them. It’s very bad to have your children stuck in the middle of the divorce. Open and honest talk with them is what you should be striving for.


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