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Perfection in Every Moment

Everyone is around you for some reason. From the person behind you in line to your mother-in-law. If you are open, you can find a lesson in anything. More importantly, you can find the value of these relationships that bother us. Maybe so much that we can release the need for them to be. And we can make the most of all of our relationships with some basic understanding. Your relationships are the key to your growth. They are the temples of today.

Each moment in itself is Perfect. Aspects are set up exactly to mirror your patterns and the cosmos. You are put in each situation in order to learn something that you have not yet mastered. If you become conscious of this, you feel more in control of your life by realizing how you have created it and are not a "victim" of circumstances. We can then let go of the desire to control life, and just look at why we created things. Just be and let the answers come to us. Stop trying as it will happen naturally. It becomes much more of a game.

So take any random moment today and sit back and observe for a second. Why would I create this situation for myself? What did I want myself to learn here? Look at all of the things in your view at that moment. Sometimes its very funny to see the obvious "signs" in your view. Many times if we could just lift the veil before our eyes and change our perspective, so much more is obvious in the same situation.

What is your definition of Perfection?

Many of us have a rather funny definition of perfection. Unfortunately, the mass definition of perfection is beautiful without "flaw". This is considered being smart, rich, powerful, spiritual, fun, etc. Of course we'd all like to be these things, but many of us need pain as our fuel to continue to grow, and therefore, lack in some of these areas.

If we change our perspective, and define perfection as being "One journeying through life... being their best, learning their lessons, enjoying the experience and enhancing the experience of others", than all of us would be considered perfect, as we are.

Even those that seem to be "fallen" right now are mastering or learning whatever it is they are caught up in. There are no mistakes in this universe as the Divine Creator has made it. There is value to everything that everyone goes through. Some of our biggest growth comes from our darkest periods. So don't have pity for them. Have compassion for what they are going through and expect them to get through it soon. Let them know you love them - that is huge. Don't care take them and protect them from it. They will have to learn another way. It will keep coming harder and harder until they are faced with so much pain they must finally shift their beliefs and grow.

To all of my perfect sisters and brothers. Congrats on getting to where you are now and thanks for your help with me. Lets make it fun and enjoy the experiences together. We all are going through some hard times. Let's be open about it and be real. It makes it much more enjoyable in my opinion.


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