You are wondering how to get your ex back because you're hurting. But, have you considered if he/she is worth getting back at all? Here are two things to consider about toxic relationships, before getting an ex back. Maybe it hurts now, but if you are in a toxic relationship, it is going to hurt a lot longer. Before you convince yourself that you need to “get my ex back”, make sure you are not in a ?tid=ab45" " toxic relationship first...OK?
Toxic Relationship Sign One - Check For This Before Winning Back Your Ex
Does your ex constantly tell you that they “love you”, but their actions say otherwise? Before getting an ex back, consider this toxic relationship indication first. Actions have always spoken louder than words, and will continue to do so...Why? Because body language doesn't lie, and it is very hard to learn how to control your body language enough, to cover up your true intentions.
So, with that being said; Do you really want to win back your ex, if they do not truly love you? I know you are hurting now, but replacing one pain with another pain, is not a very good idea. If you really do not feel that your ex boyfriend/girlfriend loves you, then start planning on how to get over an ex, instead of getting an ex boyfriend/girlfriend back. There are some really good people, and plans out there, to help you do just that, and move on with your life.
Toxic Relationship Sign Two - Do You Really Want Your Ex Back If They Do This?
Does your ex verbally abuse you in private, as well as, in front of your friends? This is a really good indication that you're in a toxic relationship. And, you should really think hard before moving forward with a plan, for getting an ex back that treats you this way. Nobody deserves to be treated this way, and that includes you. If you have been kidding yourself that they will get over this somehow, and stop abusing you, ask yourself this question; “Have they been seeking any form of counseling for this problem?”
If they do not think enough of you, and this relationship to get some help, then I think you should pass on winning back your ex. And, start learning how to get over your ex...instead. Getting an ex back that abuses you verbally, is a big mistake. And, it will probably lead to physical abuse somewhere down the road. I think since you are already broken up, that you should take this opportunity to learn more about how “real” relationships work, and form a plan to find someone you deserve. Sometimes in toxic relationships, it is better to get over an ex, instead of getting an ex back.
A Much Better Alternative To Toxic Relationships
Why would anyone do this? I mean, do you really think by randomly getting advice from friends, family, and co-workers, that you are going to succeed? You need a plan, a plan that works, and you need it now. If you want to get out of a toxic relationship, and stop getting an ex back that abuses you, you will need the proper guidance.
If you do not have a good plan…I do, and it works…just take a look at my success stories page. I will be happy to help you, and to guide you, if you are willing to work with me and the plan. Just get the “best free advice” out there, and stop ?tid=ab45" " getting an ex back that abuses you. Do It Today! Learn from your mistakes, before you make them….and get over an abusive ex.
Until next time,
S. Williams
~I know that “love hurts” but with my help you will get strong enough to kick love's ass~
